There are plenty of how-to books on life, growing up, parenting, gardening, cooking… etc. But if we spend our entire lives reading these books, we’ll miss out on actually living.
Most people are just figuring it out as they go along. We all make mistakes and learn from them. Or we have great successes and learn from them as well.
So take some comfort in knowing that you’re not the only one winging it. Life is weird. And we’re all still learning.